He really had no idea what to expect. In his mind, Mickey didn’t live there but a variety of other made up creatures did. He knew there were rides for sure and it was a long ways to get there. Often when we played, we would have to take an airplane to get there. What he did know, is there was something incredible about the place and he had to go. On Wednesday, we had the chance to witness first hand Thomas’ first time at the happiest place on Earth, full of smiles, thrills and adventure.

Lines were short, so not a lot of time for checking messages or posting to the fb or twitter, so I’m taking out to write down memories in long form here.

We covered a lot of ground that day: from Critter Country meeting Pooh and Tigger, to riding with pirates and through the jungle, exploring caves and finding treasure,  snacking in the Enchanted Tiki Room, rattling his nerves with witches, flying over the skies in rockets and on a flying elephant that goes by a certain name, meeting celebrities and invading their homes, shooting scary robots,  and watching kids become Jedi knights.

Things I never want to forget from that day (and hopefully by writing them down I won’t):

• “This is great!” was all he could say over and over as we took the shuttle into the park. His smile was broad and
• The excitement and energy after Thomas got off Gadgets Go Coaster in Mickey’s Toontown. His face was full of joy and he seemed breathless.
• The way he soaked in every detail of Mickey Mouse’s house. In his eyes, you could read his thoughts, “I can’t believe I’m in Mickey Mouse’s house!” He continues to tell us about the squirrel stealing the carrots (out of Mickey’s garden).

• “Don’t open that green door again!” stated over and over for the rest of the day after Roger tested trying to open the door to the power company in Toontown, receiving a noisy shock. Thomas swears a witch was behind the loud zaps.
• His favorite things of the day: Buzz Lightyear Astro Blasters, watching kids fight Darth Vader and Darth Maul in the Jedi Training Academy,  and of course getting a new light saber (thank you, Grandma 2D and Uncle Jerry!)

“Can we stay here?” was asked several times throughout the day. I really think he wanted to live there with Mickey and pals. Not a bad idea. I wouldn’t mind sharing Minnie’s kitchen and if you boot out the dead guy, that bed in Pirates of the Caribbean looks pretty cozy. Although, I might have to figure out how to make the ghosts stop playing the piano so we could have proper rest before climbing the Matterhorn.

Everyone seems to be making resolutions and I have been thinking about where I am in my life and career. While  I am one who personally enjoys making to-do lists (sometimes even several times a day), this year I feel, for my own sanity, I need to take a new approach to the resolutions. It is still a to-do list of sort (because I can’t resist) but on that focuses on my strengths rather than on the areas of improvements. So here it is, in no particular order…

Continue to write everyday. This includes blogging, finishing my novel, as well as writing down the best of the crazy stories I tell Thomas each night. Yes, he requests that I TELL him a story rather than read. There are good ones and some pretty terrible ones.

Continue to eat a vegetarian diet. Starting back with the Veg Week at the end of September, I just kept going with one or two meals off.  It suits me. It feels right.

Finish the projects I started from 2011. Mostly this applies to work, but also to writing and reading. I’m not going to even suggest that I not start anything new until I finish. That is just unrealistic.

Continue to stay involved in my community.This includes North Park, the nonprofits I love and the local music scene.

Be the best mom and wife I can be. This really should be at the top of the list but since they are in no particular order, it is at the bottom. Roger and I are approaching year five of our amazing marriage and our little boy is turning three. I like to thank them everyday for being in my life through hugs, kisses, smiles, cooking dinners, telling stories and making cool costumes. Because without them I really couldn’t continue to do all of the things above with a smile.

Last week I participated in San Diego Veg Week. No, not the vegging you do around the house… lying on the couch for a week watching movies; although, that sounds awesome. The kind of veg week we are talking involves a lifestyle change in eating habits for just 7 days.

The “veg pledge,” as it has be fondly referred to, finished it’s 3rd year with over 1,600 participants, up from 700 in 2010. When you sign up you indicate your veg pledge level, your current veg level and what issues prompted your pledge. I consider myself to be partly vegetarian already (eating only a little meat, cheese, eggs per week) and committed to the week as a vegetarian, with a personal pledge to attempt to eat at least 50% vegan.

“Vegan?” you say, “That’s hard.” Well that is what I set out to understand. How hard is it really? For me, an ordinary vegetarian lifestyle that includes dairy, eggs, and animal by-products, seemed easy. Often people who attempt a meatless diet fall back on cheese and dairy. Subtract the dairy, egg, honey and other animal by-products and most people freak out. I’m hear to tell you my story.

My personal concerns around attempting this diet were both for health benefits and environmental concerns. Animal cruelty is sad, and I know it happens. I haven’t seen Food, Inc., but I get it. I feel like taking on veganism by addressing concerns about the environment saves two birds by holding back one stone. It is statistics such as the following that tug at my heart and gut in imagining the future for my son:

• Livestock use 30 percent of the earth’s entire land surface
• Seafood world-wide may run out by 2050
• Switching to a vegetarian diet from the average American diet could reduce greenhouse gas emissions as driving 8,000 miles per year

This stuff terrifies me and I know that global change must come from more than an individual, but I still feel that a little change is better than none.

So with these notions in mind, I set out to be immersed in a culture for a week that included everything from entertaining sideways glances of intolerance to secret looks of approval, and self-education to sharing results with others. Here are a few highlights about my experience:

• Whole foods, not the store, are the life blood of a vegan. Knowing what goes into your food and eliminating the varieties of chemical compounds that make up many foods is something I can get behind.
• Avocado is essential for vegan sushi. I love me some sushi but I think I just love avocado, the salty goodness of soy sauce and seaweed salad more than the fish.
• Uncle Eddie’s Vegan Cookies. The chocolate chip variety are my favorite. Yum!
• Larabars. Made of only unsweetened fruits, nuts and spices. Each flavor contains no more than nine ingredients. Simple and so good.
• It’s possible to take veganism to the extreme by eliminating animal by-products used in the process of creating food. Some examples I found, you wouldn’t be able to eat at all unless you made the food yourself.
• Barnivore, an awesome vegan drinking resource. Its fairly comprehensive listings include whether a brewery/company is vegan friendly or has some options for vegans.
• Resources galore are available for anyone attempting to try this lifestyle change. Here are some that I enjoyed: VegWeb, Choose Veg and Veg San Diego

Now that the official San Diego Veg Week is done, my husband asks, “What are you going to do now?” And my response is that I will do what feels right. Everybody’s body is different. To me, the diet change was cleansing and gave me energy, but others, I heard were rolling on the floor in hunger. Meat and dairy sit heavily in my stomach while nuts and plants seem to be the right fill. I will try to maintain a fairly vegetarian (even vegan diet) with the occasional meat or cheese thrown in there. I feel it is the best I can do for myself and the environment we live in.

It’s that time of the year, when kids go back to school and summer hours of our favorite evening entertainment attraction come to an end. The animals at the zoo are already adjusting to the waning daylight, but our little wild one retains his late night schedule.

We are becoming the rogue family swinging the night away at the local playgrounds and taking walks with flashlights in the dark.

It’s sad to me that there are few to no options for the late night kid. I understand that we are among the few that allows their kid stay up late. And of those that do permit their kids to entertain the evening hours, most prefer to keep their wee ones indoors, even “glued to the tube.” We are also of the variety that does not have TV, except for streaming and DVD, and we all prefer to be doing anything else.

So, as the sun sets on summer, we reluctantly retreat indoors out of the darkness. But as we make adjustments to our evening hours of fun, we would love to hear how you keep busy with your late night little ones as the hours of daylight shorten. Or are we just freaks of nature?